Adultery. Sexual intercourse between a married person and a third party.
Agreement; Separation Agreement; Property Settlement Agreement; Marital Agreement. A legally enforceable, spousal contract settling all matters.
Typically, these agreements settle issues relating to:
1. Asset and liability division
2. Alimony, health, and life insurance
3. Legal and physical custody, child support, visitation, medical insurance and expenses, and college.
Alienation of Affection. Any intentional, malicious interference with a marital relationship.
Alimony. Court-ordered spousal support, usually periodic payments, but sometimes paid in a lump sum as part of a marital agreement (alimony 'buyout').
Alternative Dispute Resolution. an out-of-court settlement process; arbitration, mediation, negotiation or collaborative law. Not litigation. Some states mandate ADR for divorcing parties, although parties maintain the right to have a judge decide their case. If parties settle, they may present their written settlement agreement to a judge who rules on its fairness and grants a divorce. Only courts can divorce the parties. The parties may not agree to be divorced. Hence, settlement agreements may be called separation agreements or marital settlement agreements, never divorce agreements. See Agreement.
Attorney for the Child(ren). A court-appointed attorney who represents the stated wishes of the child(ren). Unlike a guardian ad litem who acts in the child's best interest by substituting her own judgment for the child's, the attorney for the child(ren) must promote those causes espoused by the child(ren) and generally not substitute her own judgment.
Automatic Restraining Order. Refers to a court order freezing assets; goes into effect automatically upon certain events like the filing of a complaint for divorce. If a party violates an automatic restraining order by transferring assets without prior leave of court or permission of the other party, that party could be found in contempt of court, subject to incarceration and/or financial penalties, including payment of the winner’s legal fees. Compare Trustee Process and Attachment.
Best interest of the child. The legal standard or doctrine for making child-related decisions.
Biological Mother. Female who provides genetic material for a child, not necessarily the gestational carrier.
Burden of Proof. The party asserting a claim must prove such claim is true.
In divorce, each party making a claim for a fault divorce must prove such fault.
Child Support. Court-ordered payments from the non-custodial parent to the custodial parent that are not tax deductible by the non-custodial parent, nor includable in the custodial parent's taxable income. The guideline support obligation is as follows:
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Number of Children |
Percent of Supporting Party's |
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Net Income |
1 |
20% |
2 |
28% |
3 |
32% |
4 |
40% |
5 |
45% |
6 or more |
50% |
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Complaint (Petition) for Divorce. A complaint for divorce initiates the divorce proceeding by identifying the parties; stating the grounds for divorce; stating all claims against the defendant; and requesting the court to grant a divorce, grant custody, divide property, and order support. All complaints must be filed with the served.'
Contested and Uncontested Divorce. In contested divorces, the parties are adversarial, they cannot agree to a martial settlement agreement. In uncontested divorces, the parties agree to all matters, and present an executed marital settlement agreement to the court for approval.
Custodial Parent. Usually refers to the parent with whom the child(ren) reside(s), i.e., the parent with Physical Custody or Primary Physical Custody.
Custody--Legal. A legal status or 'custodianship' vesting authority to approve all major decisions affecting a minor child. 'Joint,' 'split,' and 'shared' legal custody require both parents' approval of all major decisions.
In cases of child abuse, and in highly contested custody proceedings where the parties can't communicate, sole legal custody may be granted to one parent, usually subject to visitation or supervised visitation. If parents with joint legal custody cannot agree about a major decision, then the court makes the decision. Courts often defer to the custodial parent, i.e., the parent with primary physical custody.
Custody--Physical. Relates to the physical location of the child. The adult with whom the child resides is said to have physical custody. Such terms as 'sole,' 'primary,' 'shared,' and 'joint' are used to describe various parenting and visitation plans.
Most custody fights are fought over physical custody since there is usually a strong presumption of joint legal custody. Studies demonstrate that protracted custody fights have devastating effects on the mental health of children. Years later as adults, these victims still suffer.
Discovery; Pretrial Discovery. Discovery is the formal procedure for gathering information pursuant to rules of court. The primary methods are:
- Request for asset disclosure
- Request for production of documents
- Interrogatories propounded
- Depositions; Party Deposition A formal, out of court questioning under oath of a party (the 'deponent') by opposing counsel. A stenographer is usually present and produces a transcript. Used for information gathering, depositions also force a witness to commit to a certain story that cannot be changed easily at trial without facing impeachment. Depositions are expensive, provocative, and can offer your opponent a dress rehearsal for trial.
- Deposition Subpoenas; Subpoena Duces Tecum A third-party subpoena to attend a deposition and bring requested documents. These subpoenas are typically issued to employers and business associates.
6. Request for Admissions Similar to interrogatories but 1) the questions require a yes or no response, 'affirmed' or 'denied' and 2) the response is automatically admissible evidence at trial for any relevant purpose.
Dissipation of Assets. Wasting of assets that might otherwise be available for distribution upon divorce. Gambling, extravagant spending, or excessive borrowing and use of credit cards are examples of dissipation.
Domicile, Compare Residence. A party has one domicile, but may have several residences. Key term for deciding where divorce should be filed or which state’s law applies to a case. See also UIFSA, UCCJEA and Hague Convention.
Equitable Distribution; Equitable Assignment; Equitable Division (of Property). In equitable distribution states, all property, whenever or however acquired, regardless of legal title, is subject to equal or unequal division.
Equity; Courts of Equity. Equity is a body of law that concerns itself more with fairness than with the strict, and sometimes harsh, application of common law.
ERISA. Employment Retirement Income Security Act. A federal law governing employee benefits in private industry.
Estate. Assets and property interests owned by a party, often referred to in divorce cases as "the marital estate", meaning assets subject to division between husband and wife. May exclude assets owned before marriage; assets covered by a prenuptial agreement; or assets acquired by gift or inheritance. Check state law.
Evidence. Any testimony, document, or demonstrative material.
Evidence cannot be considered, i.e., used as the basis of a court's decision, unless such evidence is admissible under the rules of evidence.
Exhibit(s). Any evidence attached to a pleading or introduced at trial, for example, a husband's pay stub attached to a motion for temporary support.
Ex Parte: hearing, motion, order. Ex parte means without notice to, or attendance of, the opposing party.
In response to an ex parte motion, i.e., a motion without notice to the opposing spouse, the court conducts an ex parte hearing without the attendance of the spouse. Based on this hearing , an ex parte order is issued, and the opposing spouse receives notice of the fiat accompli.
Often attachments are issued ex parte to avoid giving notice to the defendant, since, a person who knows his property is about to be attached might quickly sell or mortgage it and secrete the money.
Expert Witness. In divorce cases, most experts are called to testify as to the value of the marital home, pensions, and privately-held businesses. In child related disputes, mental health professionals are often called to testify.
Fair and Reasonable. The judicial standard for approving marital agreements.
In divorce, lawyers' zealous advocacy must be tempered by justice, however, divorce lawyers often act as if they represent the plaintiff in a personal injury case, trying to win at all costs without consideration of the consequences. Avoid these zealots.
Fair Market Value. The price a willing buyer pays a willing seller; not a fire sale price or a sale between family members for less than full price. A price paid after an arm’s length negotiation, not a transaction between parties paying more or less than what a reasonable buyer would pay.
Court Mediator; Court Arbitrator. Court employees to whom cases are referred for dispute resolution.
Fault and No-fault Divorces. In fault divorces, the complaint for divorce must state grounds for divorce. They include cruel and abusive treatment, adultery, abandonment, and other types of misconduct.
Fee Agreement; Retainer Agreement. The written contract between you and your lawyer.
File; Filing. Any document submitted to and officially received, i.e., 'docketed' by, the court.
Asset Disclosure.
Find; Findings. After considering the evidence presented, a court or jury interprets the evidence and sets forth what it believes, i.e., finds, are the actual facts. Courts have great latitude in weighing evidence and in believing or disbelieving witnesses. The court's findings, along with its 'conclusions of law,' form the basis for the court's decision.
Fraud. Making a material misrepresentation or failing to disclosure a material fact to induce another to give up something of value.
Garnishment; Wage Assignment; Wage Attachment. A court order to a third party, usually an employer, requiring the employee's wages to be attached (automatically deducted from a paycheck) and assigned (paid) to another party, usually the wife.
Guardian ad Litem ('G.A.L.'). A court-appointed individual who, for the purpose of pending litigation, puts himself in the shoes of a legally incompetent person such as a minor child. He also investigates the matter and files a report with the court
Hold Harmless; Hold Harmless Agreement. The contractual assumption of certain liabilities by a party who agrees: 1) not to look to the other party for assistance in satisfying such liabilities, and 2) to defend ('indemnify') the other party against third party claims, if a third party, sues you.
Intestate; Laws of Intestacy. A person who dies without a will is said to die intestate.
Irretrievable Breakdown. The legal grounds for irreconcilable differences..
Legal Custody. See Custody--Legal
Legal Ethics. See Ethics; Legal Ethics
Lump Sum, Lump Sum Settlement. One time payment as opposed to a series of payments over time or an installment or structured settlement.
Mediation. An informal, voluntary process allowing parties to work with a neutral third party (the 'mediator') to develop a separation agreement. An agreement developed with a mediator is said to be a 'mediated agreement.'
Parent Coordinator. See also Guardian ad Litem. Usually a mental health professional selected by parents or the court to act as an out-of-court decision-maker on child custody and visitation issues. The Parent Coordinator is usually compensated by the parents. Preferably acts under a court order to make decisions that are binding on the parents unless and until a court rules to the contrary.
Parentage. The relationship between parent and child. Sometimes used interchangeably with paternity.
Paternity. The relationship between a male parent and a child. Usually means the biological ties, but can mean the legal relationship imposed by a court on a man who has no biological ties to a child.
Paternity, Establishment. The determination by a court or voluntary acknowledgment, usually by a signed declaration of paternity, that a man is the father of a child.
Paternity Test. Scientific means by which the identity of a person’s (usually a child) father is established. Includes blood grouping and genetic tests. Once paternity is established, the child has a right to receive support and inherit from the father.
Perjury. Perjury is knowingly lying under oath.
Personal Liberty. Living and fully enjoying life, free from fear or violence caused unnecessarily and unreasonably; free of unwarranted control by another.
Personal Property. Not real estate, houses, buildings or land. Includes, among other things, cash, savings accounts, checking accounts, stocks, bonds, intellectual property, jewelry, art, antiques, collectibles, and pets.
Personalty. Personal effects such as clothing and furnishings; a subset of personal property. Sometimes described as movable property. Compare Real Property. See Personal Property.
Pleadings. Includes the complaint (or petition), answer, and counterclaim.
Prenuptial Agreement. A written, premarital contract dealing with death and divorce which sets forth the rights and responsibilities of the parties upon occurrence of these events.
Pretrial Conference. A meeting of all parties and counsel with the trial judge, sometimes held in the judge's chambers.
Pro Se; Pro Se Appearance. When a party handles her own case, i.e., represents herself, she is said to appear 'pro se.'
Psychological Evaluation. Includes interviews of person(s), usually parents and minor children involved in custody disputes, by mental health professionals.
Public Records. any books, papers, maps, photographs, electronic storage media, computer files, digitally stored material or any other information regardless of form, which is made or received by employees of public agencies.
QDRO (Qualified Domestic Relations Order--pronounced `kwad-row). A court order directed to a 'plan administrator' or 'custodian' allocating retirement benefits between spouses.
Real Property. Land, buildings. Immovable property. Compare Personalty and Personal Property.
Recusal. The disqualification of a judge because of judicial prejudice or bias.
Rehabilitative Maintenance. Short-term spousal support designed to help the recipient 'get started' with his or her new life.
Removal (of a minor child). The legal proceeding, usually brought by complaint or petition, by the custodial parent to remove (move) the minor child(ren) from the state.
Restraining Order. A temporary court order prohibiting a party from certain activities. Issued in response to a motion, restraining orders often are issued to protect marital assets and to protect against domestic violence.
Sanctions. Under the Rules of Procedure, courts may penalize or sanction a party or counsel for improper behavior, such as making frivolous claims.
Service; Service of Process. The legal process of informing, i.e., 'giving notice,' that a complaint or motion is pending.
Summary Judgment. A procedural rule that allows judges to enter judgments without trial, generally used when only questions of law, and not fact, are at issue.
Summons. The court's official notice to the defendant that he must respond to the attached complaint or petition.
Temporary Support. An interlocutory order of support entered before trial, i.e., an order issued while a case is pending. See Temporary Order.
Testimony. Any statement made under oath.
Trial; Hearing on the Merits; Evidentiary Hearing. A formal proceeding before a judge who hears testimony under the rules of evidence and makes a final decision relating to the matters presented. All such decisions are with prejudice, since they are final adjudications of the matters presented.
Valuation. Process in divorce cases of assigning a value or worth. Value assigned by agreement of the parties who may rely on appraisers or a judge if the parties fail to agree.
Venue; Change of Venue. The location of the court, in contrast to jurisdiction, which determines whether a court has legal authority to hear a case. Venue is where a court, with proper jurisdiction, will hear the case. When a case is transferred to a new location within the same jurisdiction (county or state), the transfer is called a change of venue.
Visitation; Supervised Visitation. Pursuant to stipulation, agreement, or court order, visits of unemancipated children with their non-custodial parent. Visits are supervised by a responsible adult.
Voluntary Acknowledgment. The act of a man who signs a written declaration that he is the father of the child in question. A voluntary act, not ordered by a court. The declaration usually follows certain formal requirements established by state law.
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